Does your sex life need a makeover? This book Make Over Your Sex Life is attempting to help giving some advice, check out on HERE if like, feel free to download.
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Make Over Your Sex Life
Does your sex life need a makeover? This book Make Over Your Sex Life is attempting to help giving some advice, check out on HERE if like, feel free to download.
Saturday, December 8, 2007
Daters Find “Spark” With Niche Online Communities
Research by Spark Networks(R), Inc. Reveals More Daters Are Turning to the Web to Find Love
December 05, 2007: 08:07 AM EST
Daters of all religious backgrounds, races, ages, and sizes turn to specialized dating Web sites such as JDate®.com, ChristianMingle®.com, BlackSingles.com®, PrimeSingles®.net, and BBWPersonalsPlus®.com to find love, according to a 2007 trend report released by Spark Networks, Inc. (AMEX: LOV), the leading online personals provider with online communities.
A majority of users believe their use of personals sites helps them to find a better match. Some 31 percent of American adults say they know someone who has used a dating website and 15 percent of American adults -- about 30 million people -- say they know someone who has been in a long-term relationship or married someone he or she met online (Source: Pew Internet Research).
"People know what they're looking for in a significant other. Sites targeted toward specific affinity groups provide an ideal forum for singles looking to meet like-minded individuals," says Greg Liberman, president and chief operating officer of Spark Networks, Inc. "We expect to see continued segmentation of this market to satisfy the varied and ever-changing tastes of today's daters."
In fact, 58 percent of JDate (the premier online community for Jewish singles) members polled say the most important criteria for a life partner is to have similar lifestyle preferences and values, while 35 percent cite physical chemistry, four percent declare shared goals, and only three percent admit professional stability.
This year also saw a significant push toward offline extension events, with online daters looking to extend their experience beyond the browser. In order to meet user demand, JDate held 55 offline events in 2007, including a trip to Cancun, bungee jumping and skydiving excursions, and weekend wine tastings. An additional 200 speed dating events in partnership with HurryDate®.com were also orchestrated, totaling more than five times the amount of events offered in 2006.
Another online dating trend of 2007 was an increased subscriber base of single parents. On any given day in the United States, about 397,000 people who are the single parent of a child in their household have used online dating within the last 30 days (Source: Mediamark). This statistic, coupled with the fact that single parents represent more than 44 percent of ChristianMingle's member base, spurred Spark Networks, Inc. to create SingleParentsMingle®.com, a site exclusively dedicated to this emerging demographic.
Looking ahead to 2008, online daters can expect to get luckier in love by further personalizing their profiles, video blogging and podcasting, using mobile dating applications on their cell phones, and taking advantage of community-building features, according to a recent 2008 forecast report released by Spark Networks.
"User-generated content will continue to play a large role in the online dating sphere," says Liberman. "JDate, for example, has created an exclusive channel on YouTube called JDate Video, which will feature video profiles and other member generated content."
Just as sites like BlackSingles.com and ChristianMingle.com launched their mobile counterparts this year, more dating sites will follow suit in 2008. Daters can expect to have complete and total access to member profiles and social networking features, thereby increasing their chances of meeting Mr. or Ms. Right. In fact, the number of users utilizing mobile chat and dating services is expected to rise from 40 million in 2007 to 260 million by 2012 (Source: Jupiter Research).
Based on the success of community-centric features on dating sites (JDate.com received nearly 800,000 posts on its message board in 2007), a greater emphasis on interactive features will also be a focus in 2008. Online personals sites will continue to build out these capabilities, as online journals, message boards, and instant messaging continue to be the fastest, most convenient ways to communicate and build relationships.
Finally, as marketers continue to utilize online communities as an effective source of word-of-mouth advertising, advertisers will seek content-safe, niche environments to provide a more targeted, inexpensive and effective alternative to mass market websites.
About Spark Networks, Inc.
The Spark Networks portfolio of online personals communities includes, among others, JDate.com (www.jdate.com), AmericanSingles®.com (www.americansingles.com), BlackSingles.com (www.blacksingles.com), and ChristianMingle.com (www.christianmingle.com). More information can be found on the Company's website at: www.spark.net.
Daters of all religious backgrounds, races, ages, and sizes turn to specialized dating Web sites such as JDate®.com, ChristianMingle®.com, BlackSingles.com®, PrimeSingles®.net, and BBWPersonalsPlus®.com to find love, according to a 2007 trend report released by Spark Networks, Inc. (AMEX: LOV), the leading online personals provider with online communities.
A majority of users believe their use of personals sites helps them to find a better match. Some 31 percent of American adults say they know someone who has used a dating website and 15 percent of American adults -- about 30 million people -- say they know someone who has been in a long-term relationship or married someone he or she met online (Source: Pew Internet Research).
"People know what they're looking for in a significant other. Sites targeted toward specific affinity groups provide an ideal forum for singles looking to meet like-minded individuals," says Greg Liberman, president and chief operating officer of Spark Networks, Inc. "We expect to see continued segmentation of this market to satisfy the varied and ever-changing tastes of today's daters."
In fact, 58 percent of JDate (the premier online community for Jewish singles) members polled say the most important criteria for a life partner is to have similar lifestyle preferences and values, while 35 percent cite physical chemistry, four percent declare shared goals, and only three percent admit professional stability.
This year also saw a significant push toward offline extension events, with online daters looking to extend their experience beyond the browser. In order to meet user demand, JDate held 55 offline events in 2007, including a trip to Cancun, bungee jumping and skydiving excursions, and weekend wine tastings. An additional 200 speed dating events in partnership with HurryDate®.com were also orchestrated, totaling more than five times the amount of events offered in 2006.
Another online dating trend of 2007 was an increased subscriber base of single parents. On any given day in the United States, about 397,000 people who are the single parent of a child in their household have used online dating within the last 30 days (Source: Mediamark). This statistic, coupled with the fact that single parents represent more than 44 percent of ChristianMingle's member base, spurred Spark Networks, Inc. to create SingleParentsMingle®.com, a site exclusively dedicated to this emerging demographic.
Looking ahead to 2008, online daters can expect to get luckier in love by further personalizing their profiles, video blogging and podcasting, using mobile dating applications on their cell phones, and taking advantage of community-building features, according to a recent 2008 forecast report released by Spark Networks.
"User-generated content will continue to play a large role in the online dating sphere," says Liberman. "JDate, for example, has created an exclusive channel on YouTube called JDate Video, which will feature video profiles and other member generated content."
Just as sites like BlackSingles.com and ChristianMingle.com launched their mobile counterparts this year, more dating sites will follow suit in 2008. Daters can expect to have complete and total access to member profiles and social networking features, thereby increasing their chances of meeting Mr. or Ms. Right. In fact, the number of users utilizing mobile chat and dating services is expected to rise from 40 million in 2007 to 260 million by 2012 (Source: Jupiter Research).
Based on the success of community-centric features on dating sites (JDate.com received nearly 800,000 posts on its message board in 2007), a greater emphasis on interactive features will also be a focus in 2008. Online personals sites will continue to build out these capabilities, as online journals, message boards, and instant messaging continue to be the fastest, most convenient ways to communicate and build relationships.
Finally, as marketers continue to utilize online communities as an effective source of word-of-mouth advertising, advertisers will seek content-safe, niche environments to provide a more targeted, inexpensive and effective alternative to mass market websites.
About Spark Networks, Inc.
The Spark Networks portfolio of online personals communities includes, among others, JDate.com (www.jdate.com), AmericanSingles®.com (www.americansingles.com), BlackSingles.com (www.blacksingles.com), and ChristianMingle.com (www.christianmingle.com). More information can be found on the Company's website at: www.spark.net.
Saturday, December 1, 2007
Pick up what you want
Is internet dating only for extroverts? Hmmmm…. If you’re wondering “Is Internet dating only for extroverts?” wonder no more. In fact, introverts are the ones that may have the most success dating on the Internet. They can go at their own pace, be as cautious as they need to be, maintain their anonymity for as long as they want, and not have to meet anyone or even talk to anyone by phone until and if they are ready. No, Internet dating is most definitely not only for extroverts.
Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts. Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don’t have the time or inclination for the local bar scene. Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they’re much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves. Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth. Choose a site based on what you can afford as well. Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you’re not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won’t cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
Many millions of people use and have used Internet dating, and many thousands of these at least have found the love of their life this way. These Internet daters are both extroverts and introverts. Here are some more statistics about the folks who make a practice of Internet dating. What may surprise you is that three out of every single adult in the United States has used Internet dating at one time or another. This is often because they are introverts or because they are very busy people who don’t have the time or inclination for the local bar scene. Women who try Internet dating average about five emails every day they are members of a dating site, while the men only get one or two. What this means is that many of the women on these Internet dating sites are shy and careful, not extroverts at all. Of the males who use the Internet dating sites 40 percent of them admitted to lacking confidence about their first face to face meeting. See, not extroverted at all.
Other statistics about these dating sites include the fact that they’re much less costly than they used to be. Probably because so many folks are using them that many others are cropping up and the competition has driven the price down.
Most women who use Internet dating sites, whether extroverts or introverts, prefer men that are older than themselves. Which is good, as it turns out, because most men who use Internet dating sites are looking for women who are younger than themselves. Not that you know that Internet dating is not only for extroverts, here are some tips for giving it a try. The first thing you need to decide is what you want from Internet dating. Are you looking for a friend, occasional one night stands, a long term partner or marriage? Next find the right site or two or three. Find online reviews of the various sites and find the ones most suited for you. There are sites that are specific to age, religion, geographic region, body size, political views, sports choices and so forth. Choose a site based on what you can afford as well. Assume that it might take you six months to find the right person, especially if you’re not an extrovert. Two Internet dating sites are better than just one. It won’t cost you more if it takes you half the time by joining two. Even if you are not an extrovert, you can generally meet a few nice people, and perhaps the love of your life, through Internet dating.
10 tips for a Great First Date
1. Pay
Pay for everything. Don’t mention splitting the bill. If the lady suggests paying part of the bill do not accept the offer. If she insists, allow her to pay what she wishes (this is not just a rule for dating). You will be the best judge at the time whether your date is only insisting because she feels obliged.
2. Location
No movies on the first date. How can you get to know each other if you spend the majority of the time in silence? I would recommend taking your date out for dinner (no lunch dates on the first date either). Take her somewhere you feel comfortable and somewhere you can easily afford. You don’t want to be nervous all through the date that you might get stuck with a crippling bill. If price is a big concern for you, you can organize your own date in a public place (like a park or even at your own home) and prepare the meal yourself. If you can’t cook, takeaways are fine, but serve it on plates at the table and try to make an effort.
I would also suggest that you not go too overboard with the first date. Keep it simple and moderately priced. You can get extravagent on subsequent dates if things go well.
3. Manners
First off, if you are going to dinner, read the Rules for Fine Dining list; try to remember at least one or two. When you pick up your date, get out of the car and hold the door open for her. Do the same when you are letting her out of the car. If you are dining out for your first date, hold the chair out for your date and help her sit.Don’t be late.
4. Respect
That means not to expect anything in return! A date is not payment for future pleasures, it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. This rule also means you should not try to get your date drunk, drugged, or compromised in any other way. At the end of the date you can offer a small kiss - offer nothing else and expecting nothing back.
5. Confidence
Be confident and take charge of the evening. This does not mean you should drag your date around by the arm; be firm with your suggestions and be confident that you will have a good date and make a good impression - remember, if you were a total loser you wouldn’t be on the date in the first place.
6. Grooming
Dress appropriately for your date, and you should probably let your date know where you are planning to take her in advance so she can also dress appropriately. If you are going to the beach for a seaside dinner, dress nicely (no jeans) but don’t overdress. Similarly, if you are going to a fancy restaurant, wear a shirt and tie. Make sure your shoes are clean and polished if necessary.
Shower. Shampoo. Shave. If you have cologne, wear a little but not too much.
7. Conversation
Do not focus on yourself during the evening - ask your date questions about herself (this works in all social situations). Listen to the replies too and don’t just look for an opening to start discussing yourself. Do not talk about your job for more than a few minutes - while our own work is a fascinating subject for us, it is seldom fascinating for someone else. Be sure to compliment your date - but don’t go overboard - you will seem desperate.
Do not ever talk about dates you have had with other people or your ex-girlfriends.
8. Timing
Don’t let your date last too long. Think of it like a good meal - you should finish your plate feeling like you want just a little more. This is the best time to finish a date. This also means that you should not plan for the date to be too far from home otherwise the travel can ruin things.
9. Gifts
It can be a very nice idea to give your date a small gift on the first date. Don’t go crazy on something expensive - just a nice little token like a single rose is fine. Keep in mind where you are going and how you plan to get there so your date does not end up being lumbered with something that she has to carry around all night. Oh - and don’t pick the rose from your dates garden - buy one.
10. Conclusion
If you enjoyed your time with your date and would like to see her again, call her and tell her so. Don’t wait too long (and definitely don’t play hard to get). Be completely honest. Having said that, if you had an awful time, you should still be honest (though not brutal). There is no point in leading someone on - it will end up badly for both of you.
Source : http://listverse.com/entertainment/top-10-tips-for-a-great-first-date/
2. Location
No movies on the first date. How can you get to know each other if you spend the majority of the time in silence? I would recommend taking your date out for dinner (no lunch dates on the first date either). Take her somewhere you feel comfortable and somewhere you can easily afford. You don’t want to be nervous all through the date that you might get stuck with a crippling bill. If price is a big concern for you, you can organize your own date in a public place (like a park or even at your own home) and prepare the meal yourself. If you can’t cook, takeaways are fine, but serve it on plates at the table and try to make an effort.
I would also suggest that you not go too overboard with the first date. Keep it simple and moderately priced. You can get extravagent on subsequent dates if things go well.
3. Manners
First off, if you are going to dinner, read the Rules for Fine Dining list; try to remember at least one or two. When you pick up your date, get out of the car and hold the door open for her. Do the same when you are letting her out of the car. If you are dining out for your first date, hold the chair out for your date and help her sit.Don’t be late.
4. Respect
That means not to expect anything in return! A date is not payment for future pleasures, it is a way to get to know someone to gauge compatibility. This rule also means you should not try to get your date drunk, drugged, or compromised in any other way. At the end of the date you can offer a small kiss - offer nothing else and expecting nothing back.
5. Confidence
Be confident and take charge of the evening. This does not mean you should drag your date around by the arm; be firm with your suggestions and be confident that you will have a good date and make a good impression - remember, if you were a total loser you wouldn’t be on the date in the first place.
6. Grooming
Dress appropriately for your date, and you should probably let your date know where you are planning to take her in advance so she can also dress appropriately. If you are going to the beach for a seaside dinner, dress nicely (no jeans) but don’t overdress. Similarly, if you are going to a fancy restaurant, wear a shirt and tie. Make sure your shoes are clean and polished if necessary.
Shower. Shampoo. Shave. If you have cologne, wear a little but not too much.
7. Conversation
Do not focus on yourself during the evening - ask your date questions about herself (this works in all social situations). Listen to the replies too and don’t just look for an opening to start discussing yourself. Do not talk about your job for more than a few minutes - while our own work is a fascinating subject for us, it is seldom fascinating for someone else. Be sure to compliment your date - but don’t go overboard - you will seem desperate.
Do not ever talk about dates you have had with other people or your ex-girlfriends.
8. Timing
Don’t let your date last too long. Think of it like a good meal - you should finish your plate feeling like you want just a little more. This is the best time to finish a date. This also means that you should not plan for the date to be too far from home otherwise the travel can ruin things.
9. Gifts
It can be a very nice idea to give your date a small gift on the first date. Don’t go crazy on something expensive - just a nice little token like a single rose is fine. Keep in mind where you are going and how you plan to get there so your date does not end up being lumbered with something that she has to carry around all night. Oh - and don’t pick the rose from your dates garden - buy one.
10. Conclusion
If you enjoyed your time with your date and would like to see her again, call her and tell her so. Don’t wait too long (and definitely don’t play hard to get). Be completely honest. Having said that, if you had an awful time, you should still be honest (though not brutal). There is no point in leading someone on - it will end up badly for both of you.
Source : http://listverse.com/entertainment/top-10-tips-for-a-great-first-date/
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